Obituary Examples: Short, Traditional and Celebration-of-Life Wording
Sometimes the fastest way to write an obituary is to see one. Below are three fictional examples in different styles. Borrow the structure, the phrasing, or both.
1. Short notice (about 60 words)
Margaret "Peggy" Lane, 84, of Dayton, died peacefully on March 3. A retired school librarian, Peggy loved crossword puzzles, her rose garden and her six grandchildren. She is survived by her children, Tom and Ellen, and her sister, Ruth. A memorial will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, March 9, at First Methodist Church.
Why it works: every essential fact is there, plus three specific details. This length suits a paid newspaper notice.
2. Traditional (about 150 words)
Robert James Ortiz, 71, of Tucson, died on June 12 after a brief illness, with his family at his side. Born in El Paso, Bob served four years in the U.S. Navy before a 35-year career as an electrician, where he trained more apprentices than anyone could count. He coached Little League for two decades and never missed a Sunday breakfast at Lucy's Diner. Bob is survived by his wife of 46 years, Carmen; his sons, Daniel (Maria) and Luis; four grandchildren; and his brother, Eddie. He was preceded in death by his parents. Visitation will be held Thursday from 5 to 7 p.m. at Desert Rose Funeral Home, with a funeral Mass Friday at 10 a.m. at St. Ann's. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the local Little League.
Why it works: the classic order (announcement, life, character, family, service, donations) with a partner's name in parentheses after each child, which is a common convention.
3. Celebration of life (informal)
Our mom, Diane Walsh, left this world on a sunny Tuesday in October, which seems right for someone who never stopped telling us to go outside. She was 67. Diane taught half of Portland to swim, burned every batch of cookies she ever made, and showed up for everyone. She leaves her kids, Sam and Jess, her partner Mark, and her dog Biscuit. Come share a story with us at Laurelhurst Park, Saturday at 2 p.m. Wear something bright.
Why it works: written in the family's voice, warm and a little funny, because that's who she was. This style is increasingly common.
Choosing a tone
- Formal suits a newspaper, a public figure, or a family that prefers tradition.
- Warm and personal suits an online obituary or social media.
- Humor is fine if it sounds like the person. If you're unsure, ask one family member to read it first.
Before you publish
Leave out the full date of birth and home address (see what not to put in an obituary). Double-check every name. And if you're stuck, follow the step-by-step guide on how to write an obituary.
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